Empowering Teens Take Responsibility with Confidence
A practical, empowering course for parents who want to stop the power struggles and start building real connection.
with Kari Read, LCSW
Register nowYou love your teen.
But letâs be honest â itâs exhausting trying to figure out what actually works.
â Trade Nagging for Ownership in 21 Days
đ You see the surface problem: chores and homework are ignored.
⥠Root fix: Tasks feel forced, not chosen.
⨠Result: Shift controlâcoach, donât punishâso they own outcomes because itâs their idea.
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Who Needs This
⢠Your teen drags their feet on chores until you threaten consequences.
⢠You bribe or punish, but the change never sticks.
⢠You worry theyâll graduate with zero sense of accountability.
This three-week sprint zeroes in on the mindset shift so your teen goes from âUgh, I have toâ to âI want to.â No more weekly battles.
đ What Youâll LearnÂ
This isnât about perfection â itâs about practical shifts that actually change the dynamic at home.
Across five lessons, Iâll guide you through the tools, mindset, and strategies to parent with more calm, clarity, and connection.
đ Lesson 1:
Welcome
to the Course
â Ownership Mindset
⢠Parent mini-lesson: Why control backfires
⢠Teen mini-lesson: How choosing builds ownership
⢠Family exercise: Co-create three small goals together
đ Lesson 2:
Understanding
the Behavior Cycle
How to Support Your Teen Through the Loop
- Natural Consequence Planner
⢠Template: When you skip chores, hereâs what happens (no drama)
⢠Teen exercise: Define their own âfair consequencesâ
⢠Parent exercise: How to enforce without yelling
đ§Š Lesson 3:
Problem-Solving
Together
Coaching, Consequences & When to Step In
- When to coach, when to lead, and when to let go
- How to use natural consequences that teach (not punish)
- My go-to 4-step collaborative framework
đ ď¸ Lesson 4:
Tools That
Actually Work
Empowering Language, Common Pitfalls & Building Connection
- Simple phrases that open your teen up instead of shutting them down
- Common parenting traps (and what to do instead)
- How to build emotional safety, accountability, and trust
đŞ Lesson 5:
Small Shifts,
Big Change
Future-Casting & Goal Hooks
⢠Teen mini-lesson: Connect chores/homework to long-term dreams
⢠Family activity: Build a âvision boardâ for goals and responsibilities
⢠BONUS: Responsibility Contract PDF to sign together
đŹ What Parents Are Saying
âThis course was the first time I felt seen in my parenting journey. Kariâs approach helped me make small, doable changes that brought real peace back into my home.â
â Jenna, mom of 2 teens
âI thought burnout was just my new normal. This course helped me feel hopeful again â and actually make time for myself without guilt.â
â Marcus, dad of a 14-year-old
What Youâll Achieve
⢠Say Goodbye to Daily Nagging â Pilot parents cut reminders from nine times/day â two times/day by Day 21.
⢠Teens Who Self-Start â They learn how to break big tasks into tiny steps and actually begin.
⢠Family Harmony Returns â When teens own responsibilities, respect followsâand you get time back.
Pricing
One-Time Payment: $29
Lifetime accessâwatch at your own pace.
đ Teach Ownership Tonight â $29
FAQ
What if my teen doesnât follow through?
We include scripts for setting up a non-threatening daily check-in. If they still refuse, email kari@connectioncenteredparenting.com for troubleshooting.
Can I do this with younger siblings?
Yesâadjust the language in the teen mini-lessons for younger kids. The mindset work still applies.
How long do videos take?
Each mini-lesson is 10â12 minutes max. Worksheets take another 5â10 minutes.
Is there group support?
After purchase, you get access to our private parentsâ group on Facebook where you can share wins, ask for tips, and celebrate progress.
Imagine Your Life 21 Days from Now
No more screaming about missing socks or late assignments. Instead, picture your teen waking up on their own, grabbing breakfast, and saying, âMom, I put my clothes in the hamper yesterday.â Thatâs ownership. Letâs get them thereâtogether.
Meet Your Coach, Kari Read, LCSW
Licensed Therapist, Parenting Coach, and Mental Health ExpertÂ
â 23+ years as a social worker
â Over 20 years working with teens and families
â Certified trainer in multiple parenting tools curricula
â Private practice owner & expert in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), DBT, Internal Family Systems & more
â Parent to 3 children
Iâve worked with countless families who felt stuck, exhausted, and out of optionsâuntil they found a new way to connect with their teen. I want to help YOU do the same.
đ Parenting with connection doesnât mean letting go of boundaries.
It means knowing how to hold both.